(he's nuts as far as im concerned but he loves it and was doing this when I met him)
This routine used to bother me but it was bearable when my Daughter and Grandkids lived here , now they've moved I realise how alone I am and how much time I have to fill
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Its not him who looks after the dogs , trains them , etc , though he does now pay for food and vets bills so I definately need him to agree to having a 4th , money def isnt the issue by the way , we can afford a 4th dog
we're in a deadlock ... I really want a 4th and he doesnt ... its causing rows cos as far as I can see its just him being selfish and wanting his own way whereas with me it is something ive always wanted (4 dogs) and he knows that
I even gave him an ultimatum the other night during a row , lose the night job so we get to spend more time together or let me get my 4th dog
Now he's sorting out leaving the night job , but in all honesty id rather have the dog
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